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Tender Mercies — A Rat Tale

December 13, 2006 by Kathryn

rodent1I feel better about the rats today. It’s partly because they’re gone now and I didn’t witness a single body flying down the vacuum tube. It’s a little bit because Dan and his boss looked up these pictures of cute fluffy-tailed rats indigineous to our area. It’s largely because I have an awesome therapist who did some EMDR treatment to get me over my fear of rodents. Mostly it’s because this natural and very common phenomenon appears to be a blessing in disguise.

Several months back I heard a talk from one of the leaders of my church about the tender mercies of the Savior. It was a beautiful exploration of seemingly coincidental events that happen for our good or to lighten a burden and that all that is good comes from God.

I’ve tried since hearing that talk to notice what’s good in my life and give credit to my Heavenly Papa for the fact that I’m still alive and kicking (and sometimes screaming), that I have a house to share with the rats, food to overcook, sweet kids to barf on me, a loving husband who’s not perfect and understands that neither am I, and a beautiful world to flood me and freeze me out.

The rats, the rats. How can you be grateful for the rats, Pollyanna? Well, I’ve found a way.

rodent3Our home inspector was, ahem, less than thorough in his report. He said the electrical was fine, which it was… after we replaced nearly every outlet in the entire house the first week we lived here. He said he couldn’t exactly date the roof but his guess was about 6 years old. It turns out it’s a rotting 17-year-old roof with a maximum 20 year life span. He noticed “seasonal moisture” in the crawl space and suggested we get a little gravel to solve the problem. Contractors will soon be involved.

He said the attic was clear of pests.

So our lovely pest control agents in their boy-scout-looking uniforms have been working for two days and counting. They have found in that “clear” attic several beehives, various rodent droppings and nesting areas and a THREE FOOT WIDE BIRDS NEST. This picture is of the nest after he’d already removed half of it. What was nesting up there, a Stork? I guess I’d better take a pregnancy test.

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Maybe we should have had them leave it so we could do our Christmas Nativity up there. That nest would make a lovely manger.rodent2

Not only this, but they found that it was harder to remove the insulating than it should have been because the roof had a couple of major leaks and the insulating was completely saturated down to the sheetrock. So here’s where the rats are a blessing. If we hadn’t noticed mouse poop and called these guys, we never would have known that there was standing water in our attic. We would have discovered it when the ceiling crashed in over our bed. As it is, we discovered it before it did too much damage to the sheetrock.

We’d noticed the droppings several weeks ago, but I didn’t get around to calling in help until this week. It just so happened that as the pest control guys were discovering the roof holes, some roofers were finishing up a new roof on the house next door. They came right over, climbed on the roof and patched up the holes with the pest control guy helping from inside.

The only payment they would take for the job was some peanut butter cookies and the use of my jumper cables to start their old truck. Kind people = I like them. They could have charged me anything and I would have had no idea if they were being reasonable or not. What are the chances that a kind honest roofing crew would be working next door at the exact moment we needed them? I think sometimes God just gives us a break. Heaven knows I was ready for one.

All the experts agree that we will need an entire new roof in the spring but it’s fixed enough to hopefully get us through the winter and no major damage done.

Laylee asked why the rats came in our roof. I told her that they were looking for a warm place to spend the winter. She asked if they could have our old roof once we get a new one so they can stay warm and dry. Why yes they can. I’m sure they will have no problem finding the old roof down at the landfill.

Filed Under: Faith

Free at Last

December 4, 2006 by Kathryn

This person

nursery man

is finally old enough to attend our church nursery after nearly 18 months of chaos. I want to buy new cars for all of the nursery workers or at the very least wash their current cars’ windshields with my tears of joy.

Seeing Magoo clap his hands and yell “Yay-MEN!” after a prayer in nursery is fun. Not hearing him yell other choice words during the adult meetings anymore is even more funner.

the reasons: spongy bones for children, exterminators

Filed Under: Faith, Parenting

I Had a Timeout

October 22, 2006 by Kathryn

This weekend I went to a one day LDS women’s conference in Tacoma. Speakers and musicians came together to uplift, enlighten, entice us to buy their merchandise and charge $16 for a sandwich. I told Laylee I was going to a class to learn how to be a better mommy. The info was certainly presented. I guess we’ll have to wait and see how well it took.

They call it Time Out for Women but it’s nothing like the kind of timeout we usually do at my house. In fact, if I were to tell Laylee what we did there, I’m afraid she’d never again be satisfied with the timeout corner she’s come to love.

autographThere were a few differences.  At this timeout, we were allowed to talk, eat candy and play with toys. I carpooled out there with several friends from Hickville and met up with some new friends from these here interwebs. Natalie and No Cool Story even brought me a toy to play with in the form of a lovely bejeweled crown so I could be queen for the day.

Don’t worry, I was not a wicked queen and I killed almost no one or put their hearts in a box. Autographs were exchanged, they introduced me to their friend Frog Eye Salad and we all tried to contain our internerdery as much as possible.

time outWe had a blast gabbing and I wish they lived close enough to hang out more often, even though I was freakishly tall in comparison to both Natalie and NCS. I guess I could learn to slouch…more. Alas, I think we will have to continue communicating through the written word like Keanu Reeves and Sandra Bullock, except online, without a lake or an evil Christopher Plummer. Maybe we’re more like Meg Ryan and Tom Hanks without bookstores or New York City or romance or a dog. Whatever. I wish they lived closer.

So, I learned a few things. I know a few of my readers are Mormon but most are not so I’ll just share some fairly universal good thoughts.

1. It’s more effective to drink pop from a can that’s been sitting still than from a can that’s just been shaken. This thought came from Merrilee Browne Boyack who taught that we need to wait for the right moments to have serious discussions with our spouses and children. When your 3 year old is throwing a tantrum at Target, it’s probably not the best time to open a dialogue about the importance of self control and the inappropriateness of employing the swirling fists of fury in public places. It’s probably a good time to ignore her. She is a shaken can of pop. Sometimes you, the parent, are the shaken can of pop. If you’re mad to the point of explosion, wait to talk about it until you’re a little more gruntled.

2. Sometimes the Lord will take us to a place where no one can help us but Him and there we will receive our greatest blessings. Camille Fronk Olson used the story of Lazarus from John chapter 11 to illustrate a time when Christ required some of His most faithful followers and dearest friends to wait until 4 days after their brother had died before He came and raised him from the dead. They waited in anguish, thinking the Lord had ignored their pleas for help. She quoted Alex Haley who said “God may not always come when we ask Him, but He’ll always be on time.” (I’m having a hard time finding that quote online.)

3. At times prayers seem unanswered. Michael Wilcox suggested that when this happens, we generally conclude one of four things, God’s not there, God doesn’t care, God doesn’t listen, or I’m not worthy to have my prayers answered. These conclusions are wrong. God is there. He does care. He does listen. I am worthy because I am His child.

Wilcox explained that to understand why my prayers seem unanswered, I need to understand a bit about the nature of God. In Matthew chapter 14 is the story of Christ walking across the water to his disciples in the 4th watch of the night, when they were being tossed about on stormy seas. The 4th watch is the last watch of the night from 3AM to sunrise. The Lord often comes at the end of a long night of darkness. I believe that He allows us to experience the darkness so we can more fully feel His light when it comes.

Sometimes I feel like he has waited WAY past the 4th watch to come to me or answer my prayers. In these moments, somehow I am still able to survive. Wilcox suggests that this is because He has given me other experiences in my life to make me strong and able to weather the storms that rage around me.

I need to create a space in my heart to receive the answer he is trying to give me. Sometimes I do not receive an answer to my prayers because I am not ready to receive what he is waiting to give. He will help me create that space but sometimes it takes more time than I would prefer. Sometimes it takes more pain than I am comfortable to chisel away a place for the answer to fit.

It has been a great weekend. I got away with my friends. I made a few new ones. 130 kids took over our church services with songs and wise teachings, such as “Moses is my favorite prophet because I like his beard.” Magoo almost didn’t melt down during church. Laylee drew some tiny people tonight and the letter B. I’m feeling recharged and ready for the new week to start. Go. Fight. Win.

Filed Under: Aspirations, Faith

Heartache on a Scale from 1-10

October 1, 2006 by Kathryn

How can she complain about being fat? I weigh twice as much as she does. She gets a 3 from the judges. I get at least a 5. I may be having trouble in my marriage, but at least my husband doesn’t yell at me in public. I have nothing to complain about. I can only claim a 6.

I was only 13 weeks along when the baby died. I guess I don’t really know what it’s like to lose a child. It feels like a 9, but I’m sure it’s only really a 4 or a 5. You don’t get a 10 for suffering unless your child reaches at least age 5 before they go.

She talks about how miserable it is to have a boyfriend who cheats on her. Her suffering is her own fault. She should just get out of the relationship. I don’t think she should even get a place on the scale. At least she’s not single like me. I’ve been so lonely for so long. I’m an 8.

Your best friend is moving away. You’re 6 years old. You’ll get over it. I know you think your heart is broken, but you don’t yet know the meaning of suffering. This is merely a 1.…

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Filed Under: Aspirations, Faith

Laylee Says

September 29, 2006 by Kathryn

WHY are you reading my mom's blob?Laylee [to my hairdresser whom she chatted up for a full hour]: I have a sister and she’s big and big and bigger as you.
Hairdresser:  Really?
Laylee: Yeah, and she has PINK HAIR!
Hairdresser: Wow. I’d like to see her sometime.
Laylee: Yeah, except you can never see her because she’s like angels. You can’t see angels. They just play around in your bed at night but you can never never see them.

Laylee [reading the side of the sippy cup]: This side says “this is a big cup of water”. This side says “Flooze is it lounces.”

Laylee: These cookies don’t taste GOOD on the table with the sun shining on them. Can you please go outside and try to move the sun around?

Yes. I wonder how long until she stops believing I’m all-powerful and realizes that we need angels for far more serious things than playing around in our beds.

Filed Under: Faith

Jack-Again and the Littlest Theologian

July 31, 2006 by Kathryn

This post originally appeared on The Parenting Post on July 31, 2006.

We’ve been fishless for months since my last attempt at explaining death to Laylee. For some reason, last week I decided we were ready to try it again. Please meet the newest member of our family:

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Me: What should we call the fish?

Laylee: He’s Jack again.

Me: Jack-Again? That’s a funny name.

Laylee: Yeah. I called him that because he’s Jack… Again.

You see, Laylee is a strong believer in resurrection… resurrection and cloning… by a God who drives a car, sneaks around in the dark like the tooth-fairy, and can be enticed to do your bidding if you simply use “the magic word.”

Laylee: Look mama. My knee is getting better.

Me: Wow. What a great blessing.

Laylee: Last night Heavenly Father came down in his car — well he came down out of heaven into my room and he put new skin onto it. But I didn’t see him because I was sleeping.

Me: Sort of. He just made your body special so it could heal itself.

Laylee: When you go away to Calin-forna , he can come down and make me a new mommy and then when you get back I’ll have two Kathryns. And he can make another Daddy and another Magoo.

Me: He doesn’t actually really do that. Not that he can’t. He can do anything. He just doesn’t.

Laylee (having seen her first set of twins recently): But that girl had two little babies! I want us to have two Magoos too.

Me: Well, that won’t happen but I bet some time Mommy can grow a new baby in her tummy.

Laylee: Okay, but I want a girl baby.

Me: We’ll have to see.

Laylee: We can just drive up to heaven and say, “Excuse me, Heavenly Father. Can we have a girl baby please?”

Me: Then we’ll just have to see what he decides.

Laylee: But we can say “PLEASE…”

Filed Under: Faith

Good News

June 23, 2006 by Kathryn

We have more cupboards than I remembered from our original viewing of the house. I just spent almost 5 hours putting shelf paper down in the kitchen.

Dog food and spaghetti sauce spills in the cupboards. Yick!

On a sadder note, we may all be kicking the bucket at any moment.

I was talking to Laylee about how, starting this weekend, we will live in the new house forever. She replied, “Except we all get to die sometime.”

Me: Yep, but then we can get resurrected.
Laylee: YEAH! And then our bodies and our spirits will get STUCK together.
Me: That’s pretty special.
Laylee: Yeah, cause we need our bodies to dance… and clap our hands… and eat food. When we die, all the food goes out of us but then when we get all stuck together again the food goes BACK in our bodies.

I was thinking of asking her to explain what exactly happens physiologically when all the stuckage occurs but by the time I got around to asking, she had moved on to a discussion of how exciting it was that the clouds were moving in the same direction as our car. “Aren’t we so LUCKY!?”

She got a little lucky herself this afternoon, holding hands with a boy for the first time.

hands

Filed Under: Faith

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