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One Suck Per Day

October 6, 2012 by Kathryn

Laylee discovered the word “sucks” this week. She’s known the word for a long time but this week she discovered it in all its frustration-ventilating splendor.

“I forgot my homework at school. That sucks.”

“Oh man. I dropped the spoon on the floor. That SUCKS!”

“It’s bedtime. It so sucks.”

I use that expression sometimes, probably more than I should, but hearing it from my 9-year-old after every third sentence is alarming. It sounds so negative and a bit crass and… well… annoying.

So yesterday when she used it for the third time in as many minutes, I stopped her.

“Laylee,” I said, “You use that word a lot. It’s a strong word and it indicates strong feelings. If you’re using it more than once per day, then you’re not using it correctly. If you use it that much, then it won’t mean anything anymore.”

She furrowed her brow, thinking. And she hasn’t used it since. Because if things can only suck once a day, then you have to be very choosy about how you categorize your disappointments.

If I’d told her not to use it at all, she might have snarked or rebelled, but to tell her she was misusing vocabulary? That gave her pause.

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  1. Brooke Young says

    October 6, 2012 at 8:14 pm

    Well played mom, well played! 🙂

  2. Allysha says

    October 6, 2012 at 8:32 pm

    You are awesome.

  3. Caryn Caldwell says

    October 7, 2012 at 7:23 am

    LOVE this idea! And this is why you are a fantastic mom. Well, one of the reasons…

    At any rate, I am going to try to remember this so I can use it when Sunshine discovers words I don’t appreciate.

  4. FarmWife says

    October 7, 2012 at 11:58 am

    Thank you, oh wise one. I will keep this firmly in mind for when Bitsy starts in (which should be any day now since everything Big Sister says, Bitsy must repeat).

  5. Elise Steele says

    October 7, 2012 at 6:39 pm

    Not only is it clever, but it’s also true! That’s the real beauty of it.

  6. Jess says

    October 9, 2012 at 12:05 pm

    That is pure brilliance! I think I’m going to have to borrow that one. Thanks!

    • The Daring One says

      October 10, 2012 at 7:58 am

      The remedy is still holding here. Good luck!

  7. Linda says

    October 17, 2012 at 12:37 pm

    We’ve had a similar issue in our house. I started telling H. that ‘sucks’ wasn’t descriptive enough and I didn’t know what he meant. After many questions asking him to elaborate…’when you say suck do you mean….’ he stopped using it as much. In fact, when he says it now he’ll immediately correct himself and say ‘I mean …’ before I have the chance to launch into my annoying questions 🙂

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